







A search for mother (or the experience of mother) in a birth chart will focus on the Moon house position and aspects and 10th house planets.
This is a quick skip round main features which can be amplified by reading elsewhere.
Where the Moon falls house-wise is what brings nurturing and protection (the mothering energies). Different children born at different times in a marriage or in the mother’s changing circumstances will reflect on the children (and their chart), sometimes producing a radically different experience of the same mother to different siblings. Also the different temperaments of each child will sit comfortably or less so with the mother so where one child may feel accepted, another may feel rejected through no fault of their own.
Moon aspects: A Moon aspected (conjunct, square, opposition) by Jupiter gives a rosy view of mother, perhaps because of lax boundaries or spoiling, over indulgence though tends to have a superficial feel. Mother feeds sweeties but not genuine deep affection. The adult child will have a tendency not to see the reality of mother/women and will resist looking at the shadow.
Moon Saturn (Princess Anne and Queen Elizabeth 11) is an emotionally distant mother distracted by duty, responsibility and perhaps difficult circumstances, so instilling in the child a sense of discipline and an acceptance that hard work is expected.
Moon Uranus is an unpredictable mother, can-feel-rejecting mother, sometimes there, sometimes not, which lays the ground for independence early on and a tendency to be restless, in need of constant change emotionally and domestically.
Moon Pluto is a possessive, controlling mother which is not felt as emotionally supportive but suffocating and results in emotions in the child being shut down and firewalled off from invasion – and defensively becoming over controlling themselves.
Moon Neptune is a mother lacking in psychological boundaries so the child finds it difficult to distinguish between ‘my’ feelings and ‘mother’s’ feelings and indeed others in adult life. Mother may be seen as needy, sick, weak or head-in-the-clouds.
Moon Mars is a mother who blocks assertion and anger, thus building up a reservoir of resentment and anger in the child who will react impatiently with women of all varieties in adult life.
Moon Venus, astrologer Richard Idemon described as ‘the poisoned apple’ – mother offering maternal affection with a streak of sexuality wrapped up in it.
Moon Chiron – the wound is the mother who may have been inadequate and like Moon Neptune tends to make the child more aware of others’ needs than their own which continues into adult life.
New Moon mother will result in the child seeing both parents as a single unit, or perhaps being brought up by a single parent who has to be both mother and father.
Sun opposition or square Moon – parents very different in temperament, almost incompatible and could be divorced, which leaves a lifelong struggle in the adult child to reconcile their masculine and feminine sides. What I want and what I ought to do are always at odds. It does find a resolution but usually only later in life.
An unaspected Moon gives a sense of disconnection, being detached, not at home, less demonstrative emotionally. Can feel vulnerable or unstable, not secure or supported.
Houses: An 8th house Moon suggests a grandparent (mother) was the one with whom there was the strongest maternal connection. An 11th house Moon has mother as a friend rather than a parent/or friends acting as the main emotional support. A 9th house Moon brings support from books and knowledge. A 12th house Moon points to a mother who was emotionally absent during the gestation of the baby and who will struggle to form a strong bond after birth. A 3rd house Moon brings mothering from siblings or mother feels like a sister. A 4th house Moon suggests that the wider family and sense of roots is what offers emotional security. A 2nd house Moon – mother and attitudes to to money are intimately connected. A 6th house Moon can bring a connection between emotional states and physical stamina so mother may have been overly anxious or had health issues? A 5th house Moon brings nurturing from children in adult life. 7th house Moon maybe mother as partner rather than parent? Produces in adult life a need for security and support of a close partner.
Planets in the 10th or the ruler of the sign on the cusp of the 10th –
Moon in the 10th – mother who instils a need for outer acclaim, often found in politicians’ charts or in public careers.
Mars in the 10th – assertive, ambitious, angry mother who engenders a competitive instinct in the adult child.
Jupiter in the 10th – a flamboyant, drama queen mother, who instils confidence and brings luck in later life.
Saturn in 10th – disciplinarian mother, instils a work ethic, but not good for relaxing or playing, pays off in later life in success.
Uranus in 10th – zany, erratic, changeable mother, not good for stability or reliability but suits the adult child for an exciting, changeable career.
Neptune in 10th – a mother who needs support and sympathy, suits adult child for either the healing professions or creative ones.
Pluto in 10th – a controlling mother who once her domination is escaped produces a strong personality in the adult which can make for a career of influence, though there will always be an issue around power and control.
Celebrity examples are not always a good guide to ordinary living or psychology but the Kardashian family do give some pointers.
Mama Kris Kenner 5 November 1955 6.42 am San Diego, CA has a determined Sun and Saturn in Scorpio straddling her Ascendant with a flamboyantly confident, ambitious and controlling Jupiter Pluto in her 10th house of career.
Of the five girls –
Kourtney, 1979, an Aries, has Neptune in the 10th and an 11th house Capricorn Moon square Mars in Aries, trine Saturn – not a great chemistry with mother who comes across as needy (Neptune in 10th) as well as cold, overly-hard-working and unfair in her expectations.
Kim, 1980, despite being a Sun Libra, is the closest to mother in career aspirations with Jupiter conjunct her Midheaven and Saturn in her 10th as well. Her 4th house Pisces Moon opposes Jupiter so she’ll see Kris through rose-coloured glasses although a hint of the workaholic mother comes through in Moon opposition Saturn and trine Uranus.
Khloe, 1984, a Sun Cancer with Mars Saturn in Scorpio, she has unpredictable Uranus conjunct her midheaven for a restless, changeable mother who would feel abandoning at times. Her 4th house Moon opposes Neptune for a mother with too few boundaries who needed nurturing herself.
Kendall, 1995, a Scorpio, with a highly-strung Uranus Neptune in Capricorn in her 10th has a 12th house Aries Moon trine an 8th house Pluto Venus and widely Mars. Mother at an awkward time in her life, very wound up with intergenerational issues flooding in.
Kylie, 1997, an 8th house Leo Sun with a 10th house Scorpio Moon square Uranus Jupiter and her Sun.
The first two children had the more Saturnine mother perhaps struggling to make a career for herself and she mellowed as she grew older and became more successful. The sense across all five is of a surprisingly needy mother who required her children to mirror her (rather than the other way round) and give her a stronger sense of identity. Their success became her prize.
The all-time horror mother was Natalie Wood’s stage mother who put her through nightmares as a child star to achieve success for mother rather than herself. Natalie, 20 July 1938 11.16 am San Francisco, had her Cancer Sun conjunct a ruthless Mars Pluto conjunction all in the 10th and square a Taurus Moon. It’s a miracle she lived as long as she did.
From previous posts. In search see: Moon Pluto, Moon Uranus, Moon Neptune, Moon Saturn, Moon Mars in different posts from a year or so ago.